Moms

I know Mother's Day has passed, but it has gotten my thinking process going. (It could also be that I just listened to a sermon about moms.) There are many different types of moms. The definition of a mother in the dictionary is very generic. (Female parent) It takes more than just giving birth to be a mom. Some moms have never experienced the whole birthing process but still posess all the qualities a mother should have. Many women who give birth never develop these qualities, but still qualify as a mother.

To me, a mother figure is one who has had a positive impact on your life. She has given you love and attention and guidance through many bumpy situations. She has never turned her back regardless of the circumstances. The love she shows is unconditional. You know that regardless of what goes on in the world around you, what kind of mess you have gotten into, your mother will still see the potential you have and guide you to undo all the tangles you have created.

Moms leave a legacy in their children without the children realizing what they are learning. I know many women's goals are to not become their mother. However, this is quite inevitable. If your mother has had any input on your upbringing, you will become somewhat like your mother.

In my life, I have many moms. My maternal mother, my mother-in-law, a spiritual mother, and other women that have impacted me one way or another. I have been blessed to have a network of women that have been influential in the woman I am today.

My mom has passed to me her determination. I can be rather bull-headed. But in crisis situations, I get a mind set of the things that need to be done and accomplish them. In daily tasks, I can get more done only with the determination I have gained from her.

I guess my reason for this post is to just make you think about the women in your life that have helped shape you into the person you are now. Although, some characteristics you may not be thankful for right now, they will come in handy at some point throughout your journey in life. Thank your mom for who you are and who you are to become.